100 Nice Things To Do For Your Husband

As a relationship coach with over 15 years of experience counseling married couples, I’ve seen firsthand how small gestures of kindness and appreciation can transform a marriage. After all my years of working with couples, I’ve compiled a list of 100 nice things to do for your husband to show him love and bring you closer together.

Whether you’ve been married 40 years or just tied the knot last month, making your husband feel cherished should be a priority. I know life gets busy with work, kids, and other responsibilities competing for your time. But setting aside even a few minutes a day to do something thoughtful for your spouse reminds them how much you care.

Plan Fun Activities Together

One of the best ways to nurture intimacy in marriage is by spending meaningful time together. All too often, couples get caught up in everyday tasks and drift apart over the years without realizing it. Make an effort to do activities you both enjoy – it will strengthen your emotional connection.

Here are some ideas to get you started:

1. Plan a weekend camping or glamping trip. Enjoy nature and each other’s company away from distractions.
2. Take a pottery or art class together. Get creative while having fun.
3. Go on a hot air balloon ride (if neither of you are afraid of heights!). Unique experiences create lasting memories.
4. Visit amusement parks, zoos, or museums. Laugh and make new memories.
5. Hike a nature trail and enjoy a picnic in the woods. The exercise and scenery make for a rejuvenating day.

Surprise Your Husband

An unexpected gift or act of service shows your spouse they are cherished. Surprises release feel-good hormones like oxytocin and dopamine, leaving you both in better moods!

6. Have his car detailed inside-and-out to save him time.
7. Plan a secret weekend getaway for just the two of you to relax and reconnect.
8. Make his favorite breakfast and serve it to him in bed. The simple act brings a smile to his face to start the day.
9. Leave sweet notes in unexpected places – his lunchbox, car, pocket, etc. Words of affirmation make an impact.
10. Organize a fun outing or activity with his guy friends – concerts, games, camping and more! He’ll appreciate the effort.

Give Sincere Compliments

Words of affirmation are one of the five love languages for a reason – they make people feel truly seen and appreciated. Pay your husband genuine compliments each day on things big and small and watch your bond strengthen.

Here are some easy ways to get started:

11. Compliment something specific about his appearance – his smile, how handsome he looks in that shirt, his beautiful eyes. We all like to look and feel attractive for our spouse!
12. Praise his efforts at work and with providing for your family. Providing a stable income causes stress; recognizing his hard work matters.
13. Thank him for minor things he does around the house like taking out the trash, repairs, etc. Doing chores often go overlooked so show gratitude.
14. Tell him how much you appreciate how kind and patient he is with the kids. Parenting can be stressful so this deserves acknowledgement.
15. Compliment his leadership/guidance and how much you value his input on difficult things. Let him know you respect his advice.

Cook and Bake For Him

They way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, right? Treating your husband to home-cooked meals or baked goods brings comfort and lifts his spirits. Plus, making food with love feels more nourishing!

Here are some tasty ideas:

16. Prepare his favorite meal or dessert. Use family recipes whenever possible for nostalgia.
17. Pack him a thoughtful work lunch with a sweet note inside.
18. Surprise him by baking his preferred cookies or pastries.
19. Make dinner together while listening to music in the kitchen. Then enjoy your culinary creations by candlelight.
20. Craft personalized pizzas with his favorite toppings. Get creative with combinations!

Give Loving Touch

The power of touch should not be underestimated in relationships. Physical affection releases hormones, reduces stress and anxiety, and promotes better sleep and an overall sense of wellbeing. Make time to hold hands, hug, snuggle and be close.

Here are some ways to incorporate more touch:

21. Initiate hand-holding while running errands, taking walks, etc. Intertwine fingers for maximum skin contact.
22. Give neck rubs and massages using scented oils to help him relax after a long day.
23. Greet him at the door with a long embrace after work.
24. Snuggle on the couch under cozy blankets. Enjoy the oxytocin boost!
25. Initiate sex and try something adventurous together between the sheets! Keep the passion alive.

Write Love Notes

Written words of love and appreciation have an amazing ability to boost moods and strengthen connections, even in the happiest marriages. The permanence of written correspondence also makes them special mementos.

26. Leave sticky notes with loving messages hidden around the house or in his car.
27. Craft a heartfelt love letter sealed with a kiss. Mail it for an extra surprise!
28. Write thoughtful messages using window markers on his car windows for him to discover later.
29. Create love coupons he can redeem – foot massages, date nights planned by you, and more.
30. Place sweet notes in strategic spots you know he looks at daily – bathroom mirrors, Beside tables, lunchboxes.

Give Small Gifts

Even the smallest unexpected presents makes your man feel special. Such gifts communicate, “You were on my mind” or “I care about your interests.” Bestow them generously!

31. Buy his favorite snacks or beverages he enjoys.
32. Get him a unique gift like quirky socks, funny mug or personalized item. The creativity counts more than cost.
33. Craft personalized coupons for things like backrubs, date nights, his favorite home-cooked meal and more!
34. Create a personalized playlist or mixed CD of songs with meaning behind them.
35. Give tickets to a game, show, or event you know he’d love. Coming along is optional!
36. Purchase a book you think he’d find interesting. Write a sweet inscription inside the cover.

Additional Everyday Acts of Kindness

Small gestures demonstrating thoughtfulness, care, and understanding also nurture intimacy between couples. The little things do matter when it comes to strengthening marriages!

37. Take over a household chore your husband dislikes like laundry or cleaning bathrooms.
38. Run an errand to save him time or pick up items he needs from the store.
39. Prepare and pack a lunch so he doesn’t have to make one for work.
40. Handle small home repairs like changing lightbulbs while he relaxes. Every bit helps!
41. Offer to give his car a wash and vacuum to have it looking spiffy.
42. Help tackle items lingering on his to-do list so he can relax.
43. Rub his feet or give a neck massage after a stressful day.
44. Bring his warm slippers and a cold drink when he sits down after work.

Outdoor Activities For Couples

Plan outdoor adventures together to detach from devices, breathe fresh air, and bond away from household distractions. Nature also has calming, rejuvenating effects which fortify relationships.

Here are ideas for outdoor fun:

45. Picnic in the park or botanical gardens over light bites.
46. Take scenic hikes in nature and bring snacks to enjoy along the way.
47. Rent bikes and explore nearby neighborhoods or trails. Stop for ice cream!
48. Book a secluded cabin to stargaze together without light pollution. Learn new constellations!
49. Play tennis, throw frisbees, fly kites or engage in other outdoor activities.
50. Visit orchards and pick fruits together depending on the season – apples, berries, peaches and more!

Indoor Quality Time Ideas

Not every activity needs to happen outside the home for married couples to bond meaningfully. There are endless creative possibilities for togetherness within your own walls!

51. Craft vision boards displaying goals and dreams. Discuss and inspire each other!
52. Assemble jigsaw puzzles on the kitchen table while chatting and listening to music.
53. Play lively board and card games – mix up the types for increased excitement!
54. Enjoy free online painting/pottery/craft tutorials and get creative. Display your artwork after!
55. Cuddle under blankets drinking hot cocoa or wine watching movies. Comedy, romance…mix it up!

Thoughtful Ways To Support His Interests

When you demonstrate genuine curiosity about the hobbies and passions occupying your husband’s time, it makes him feel valued and supported by you.

56. If your husband loves sports, watch games with him wearing a team shirt. Ask him questions to learn!
57. Show interest when he discusses wanting to learn an instrument or language. Research options you can explore together.
58. When he seems stressed, suggest an hour to work on projects he’s been putting off – woodworking, model building, programming.
59. Help brainstorm or research ways for him to start that side business idea he’s been thinking about. Provide encouragement!
60. Offer to watch the kids if he wants to meet up with friends occasionally for “guy time.” Everyone needs breaks sometimes.

Morning and Bedtime Routines Matter Too!

How you spend mornings and nights also impacts relationship happiness. Set positive tones with caring gestures to start and end each day.

61. Bring your husband coffee or tea in bed some mornings as a loving wakeup call.
62. Send encouraging texts before big work events – presentations, job interviews, etc.
63. Prepare juices or smoothies with nutritional boosts to help him power through his day.
64. Lay out an outfit for him in the mornings you know will be rushed and chaotic. Saves him time!
65. Purchase his favorite granola bars or protein bars so healthy snacks are ready to grab and go.
66. When you go to bed before your husband, place a sweet note for him to discover when retiring to bed as well.
67. Draw a warm scented bath for him to unwind in if it’s been an extra tiring day.
68. Give relaxing massages before bedtime to help destress so he sleeps better.
69. Have him discover you wearing something sexy or holding a glass of wine for him when he walks in the bedroom.
70. Initiate intimate time. Sex and orgasms boost oxytocin, decrease stress hormones, and promote restful sleep.

Plan Regular Date Nights

It’s all too easy for married couples to get into a predictable grind of running errands, attending kids’ events, and binging Netflix each night. Shake things up with regular date nights!

71. Book dinner at a new trendy restaurant neither of you have tried yet for a taste adventure.
72. Check local event listings for special one-off experiences – craft fairs, beer & food festivals, car shows, etc. Newness fosters bonding!
73. Splurge on concert or comedy show tickets for his favorite performer. Sing and laugh together!
74. Enroll in an inexpensive introductory dance, pottery, or cooking class. Enjoy learning a new skill while spending quality time chatting.
75. Visit amusement parks together and indulge your inner child going on rides, playing games, eating junk food.

Create Romantic At Home Dates Too

You needn’t spend a fortune on lavish outings to reconnect with your spouse. Some of the best date ideas happen right at home!

76. Recreate your first date at home – cook the same meal, watch the same movie, sip the same wine. Nostalgia is powerful!
77. Exchange massages by candlelight then soak together in a bubble bath or hot tub with champagne.
78. Craft a personalized scavenger hunt leading your husband to hidden love notes and fun surprises.
79. Pitch a blanket fort, scatter rose petals and battery-powered string lights inside, then snuggle up sipping cocktails and chatting inside your cozy hideaway.
80. Slow dance in the living room and reminisce about wedding moments listening to special songs.

Give The Gift Of Time

In today’s hectic world, one of the most precious gifts you can give your spouse is your undivided time, attention and presence. Offer this generously.

81. Phone or video call just to say hi without distractions. Don’t multitask – give him your full focus!
82. When your husband talks about his day, be mentally present. Actively listen, ask thoughtful questions, empathize.
83. Initiate conversation about hopes, dreams and goals for the future. Visualize exciting possibilities!
84. Take mini weekend trips or staycations allowing you to focus completely on each other without everyday interruptions
85. Schedule tech-free chunks of time together – no TV, phones, computers. Enjoy the simplicity!

Plan Surprises To Delight

Injecting an element of mystery and surprise into relationships keeps things fresh and exciting. It feels amazing to be thought of!

86. Hide playful love notes around the house and car for him to unexpectedly discover later.
87. Arrange an unexpected lunch or coffee drop-by delivery to his workplace for an effortless mid-day pick-me-up.
88. Kidnap him for a mystery drive ending at a fun destination – mini golf, go carts, arcade. Keep it light and lively!
89. Plan a secret trip to check items off your shared bucket travel lists – museums, shows, restaurants, natural wonders. Research in advance then sweep him away on your next free weekend!
90. Throw a surprise party for him with close friends. Celebrate milestones – work promotions, birthday, anniversary. Or just because!

Book Romantic Getaways

There is something magical about escaping everyday routines together to spend quality couple time exploring new locales hand-in-hand. Such trips build intimacy and memories.

91. Book a secluded bed and breakfast or boutique hotel allowing you to relax and be fully present with each other.
92. Splurge on his dream destination – a Hawaiian resort, European cruise, African safari. Saving up and planning makes it sweeter!
93. Visit wine regions staying at cozy vineyards, indulging in tastings and vineyard tours.
94. Soak up culture, art, shopping and fine dining in world-class cities like Paris, New York, Tokyo. Try new activities and cuisines!
95. Backpack through magnificent National Parks to commune with nature and marvel at dazzling night skies snuggled together stargazing.

Nurture Intimacy

While certainly not the foundation of marriage, physical intimacy serves an important role bonding couples emotionally and physically. So make sex, passion and closeness priorities!

96. Initiate sex often keeping techniques creative and playful. Different locations, toys, techniques and games keeps things spicy!
97. Email or text flirty messages building anticipation for intimacy later.
98. Surprise your husband by donning enticing lingerie or giving a sexy striptease upon his return home.
99. Schedule erotic massages – in home or at spas. Allowing someone else to touch each of you in sensual (not sexual) ways often increases couples’ subsequent passion and intensity during lovemaking.
100. Get away on romantic weekends focusing just on each other without distractions from jobs, phones, kids, housework, etc. Devote unrushed quality time nurturing intimacy.

The Power Of Small Gestures

As you can see, it’s the small random acts of love and caring that collectively make spouses feel treasured and supported day-to-day and year after year. So aim to do at least one thoughtful thing for your husband daily without expectation.

The smiles, thank you’s, tighter hand squeezes and extra snuggles let you know your efforts don’t go unnoticed – even if he doesn’t always verbally acknowledge every act. He feels special because you make him a priority in small but meaningful ways.

That ongoing gift of presence and adoration serves lifelong marriages exceptionally well by nurturing intimacy that withstands external stresses and storms. So start showering your spouse with all the gestures suggested here and watch your bond strengthen!